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This
scripture popped up in my readings. “Consider how small a fire can set a huge
forest ablaze. The tongue is also a fire.” James 3:5-6.
While
I may not use my tongue to spread gossip or try to get others in trouble, God is still convicting me of abusing His gift of speech.
Whenever
I am with friends or a group of people, the storyteller in me bursts out. I
love sharing funny or interesting tales about myself, others, or some adventure.
However, even though listeners have told me I am a wonderful storyteller, that
is not a license to dominate the conversation.
I’ve
tried several mantras to remind me to slow down and listen more, but I forget
to use them.
The
phrase button it finally came to mind. I slip a large
button into my pocket before I go to any social gathering, even if it is only
meeting a friend for tea or coffee. This subtle reminder to take a breath and
let others speak has helped. With more practice, I’m sure I’ll find a healthy
balance between telling stories and listening.
Lord, thank you for the gift of speech and
storytelling. Help me use them wisely. Amen.
Are you a talker or a listener?
